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Olivia Parker

Olivia writes about long distance relationships and the everyday work of staying close from far away. She started writing after spending three years in an LDR of her own, and now shares practical, honest advice for couples navigating distance, trust, and connection.

What to Do When He Is Rude to Waiters but Sweet to You

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Couple at a sunny brunch patio table where the boyfriend is rude to waiters but sweet to his girlfriend

It was 11:30 on an April Saturday, on a busy brunch patio in Austin. My friend Maya had brought her boyfriend Jake to meet me. Our server was a young guy with a nose ring who was clearly slammed. Our eggs took about 25 minutes, which was annoying but normal. Jake snapped his fingers and … Read more

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How to Sign a New Lease Alone After a Breakup

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman signing a new lease after breakup at a leasing office desk

My friend Nadia signed her first solo lease at 10:45 on a snowy Saturday in January. I sat next to her in a cramped Denver leasing office. Six weeks earlier, she and her ex Chris had split after four years together. Their old lease had his name listed first. The agent asked if it was … Read more

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What to Do When Your Husband Wants to Move Closer to His Parents

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman looking out a rainy ferry window thinking about a move closer to his parents

My friend Monica and I rode the Bainbridge ferry one rainy September Saturday. It was 4:10 in the afternoon, and the windows were foggy. She stared at the gray water and finally said what was on her mind. Her husband Luis wanted to move from Seattle to San Antonio. His dad had knee surgery in … Read more

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What to Do When You Lose Your Engagement Ring Weeks After the Proposal

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Bare hand on a beach towel after a woman lost her engagement ring in the lake weeks after the proposal

It was 2:15 on Labor Day at a crowded Lake Michigan beach. My friend Kelsey came out of the cold water holding up a bare hand. Her fiance Ryan had proposed just five weeks earlier on a dock at sunset. Now the ring was somewhere in the sand or the waves. She sat down on … Read more

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What Happened When I Let My Boyfriend See Me Fail at Something

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman staring at a laptop on the floor after failing an exam, unsure about failing in front of him

The email came at 9:50 on a snowy Tuesday night in January. I was on Noah’s living room floor with cold lo mein in my lap. It was the score for a certification exam I had studied for since August. I missed passing by four points. My first instinct was to close the laptop and … Read more

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What to Do When Daylight Saving Time Messes Up Your Long Distance Calls

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman sitting in her car at dusk holding her phone while waiting for a long distance call after daylight saving time

On the first Sunday of November, I sat in a Safeway parking lot in Phoenix. It was 6:10 at night, and his call had not come. Ethan lived in Chicago back then, and Arizona never changes its clocks. His phone jumped back an hour, and mine stayed put. His call finally came at 7:10 my … Read more

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How to Handle the Airport Goodbye at the End of Every Long Distance Visit

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Couple hugging goodbye at an airport curb in the early morning at the end of a long distance visit

It was 5:40 in the morning at O’Hare, and sleet was hitting the windshield. Ethan pulled up to the Terminal 1 curb with the hazards on. It was February, near the end of our second year of long distance. I had a 7:05 flight back to Phoenix and a lump in my throat. A security … Read more

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What to Do When He Says I Told You So After Every Mistake

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman holding a paint can in a parking lot after hearing I told you so

Ethan said “I told you so” in a hardware store parking lot. It was 2:30 on a rainy Saturday in April. I was holding a gallon of paint for my bedroom wall. It was supposed to be soft gray, and it looked like a swimming pool. He had warned me in the store, and he … Read more

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What to Do When Your Husband Wants to Quit His Job to Start a Business

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman on the phone in a parked car after her husband shared plans to start a business

My sister Rachel called me from her car on a gray February afternoon. It was 12:30, and she was parked outside a grocery store in Columbus. Her husband Ben had told her his big plan over breakfast that morning. He wanted to quit his accounting job and open a bike repair shop. His exact words … Read more

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How to Share a Bed When He Runs Hot and You Are Always Cold

October 9, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Couple sleeping under separate blankets because he runs hot and she is always cold

At 1:40 on a Tuesday morning in July, I woke up shivering in Sam’s bed. His air conditioner was set to 66, and he was on top of the sheets. I stay over at his apartment two or three nights a week. We do not live together, so his bedroom runs on his rules. Sam … Read more

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