Marriage Advice

The calendar rules, phone limits, and honest conversations that helped us stop letting work get the best hours of our marriage.

The small weeknight habits that rebuilt our marriage after my husband said we ate dinner like roommates.

The small, unglamorous rules that changed how my husband and I argue, including a 10:30 curfew and one room where nothing gets litigated.

The first year of marriage struggles nobody warned me about, from our first fight over shredded cheese to the money rule that finally fixed things.