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Olivia Parker

Olivia writes about long distance relationships and the everyday work of staying close from far away. She started writing after spending three years in an LDR of her own, and now shares practical, honest advice for couples navigating distance, trust, and connection.

What to Do When You Delete His Number but Still Know It by Heart

September 28, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Sad woman looking down at her phone

My friend Jenna deleted Marcus from her phone the night she moved his last box to his car. She felt proud for about an hour. Three weeks later she needed to text a plumber. She typed Marcus’s old number by pure muscle memory instead. Her thumb still knew all ten digits even though his name … Read more

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What to Do When You Say Yes But Feel Panic Instead of Joy

October 9, 2026September 28, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Close up of an engagement ring box in hand

My friend Maddie called me at 6am the morning after Nolan proposed on their porch. She was crying, but not the way I expected. She said yes the second he opened the box. Then she spent the whole night wide awake with her stomach in knots. By sunrise she felt something closer to dread than … Read more

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What to Do When You Open Up Easier by Text Than Out Loud

October 8, 2026September 28, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman texting on her phone at night

Theo and I spent three years long distance, him in Denver and me in Austin. Most nights we only had a phone screen between us. I could type “I miss you and I’m scared about my job” without flinching. Saying that same sentence out loud made my throat close. It took me years to notice … Read more

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What to Do When He Wants to Hang Out Instead of Date

October 9, 2026September 28, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman smiling while texting on her phone

Theo texted me “wanna hang out this weekend” nine days after we matched on an app. I stared at that word for way too long. Hang out could mean anything from a movie to a group bonfire with strangers. I did not know which one to expect that Friday. We were both twenty-four and neither … Read more

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What Changes the First Time You Choose Him Over a Big Opportunity

September 27, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Woman sitting outside thinking about a big decision

At 4:15 pm I sat on our fire escape holding my phone. A recruiter had just offered me a great role in Seattle. Caleb and I had only been living in the same city for one year. Seattle would have meant putting the miles back between us. We had only just finished closing the distance … Read more

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When Giving Love and Receiving Love Look Nothing Alike

September 27, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Couple folding laundry together at home

Last Thursday at 7:30 pm I was folding his laundry in silence. Nate walked in and said I never just tell him things. I froze holding one of his folded t shirts mid air. I thought folding his laundry was already telling him something. We had been together five years with different love languages. That … Read more

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What to Do When You Get Engaged During a Hard Year

October 8, 2026September 27, 2026 by Olivia Parker
Couple embracing after an emotional engagement moment

My friend Dani called me at 6:52 on a Wednesday evening. She was still sitting in her car outside Trader Joe’s. Marcus had proposed right there with the engine still running. He said he could not wait one more single day. Dani was laughing and crying at the exact same time. She kept saying she … Read more

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What to Do When You’re Always the One Who Makes the Plans

October 7, 2026September 27, 2026 by Olivia Parker
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Last Tuesday at 9:15 pm I found six takeout menus on the table. I had planned every single one of them myself. My boyfriend Theo sat scrolling his phone with no plan in sight. He never once suggested where we should go for dinner. That night something in me finally snapped a little. I was … Read more

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What to Do When You Still Live in the Same Building as Your Ex

September 26, 2026 by Olivia Parker

My friend Priya heard his door close at 11:40 on a Tuesday night. Tyler still lives four doors down the same hallway. They broke up in March, but neither lease was up until August. Five months of hearing his footsteps outside her own door. She called me the night she saw his car in the … Read more

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What to Do When You and Your Husband Want Different Weekends

September 26, 2026 by Olivia Parker

My friend Jenna called me at 8:20 on a Saturday, already annoyed. Marcus had just announced golf instead of visiting her sister. They have been married for four years and this fight is not new. It shows up almost every weekend in some slightly different shape. Jenna wants shared time and Marcus wants his own … Read more

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